
The Soft Skills Way™ MEMBERSHIP
For women who want to live and lead with clarity, confidence & ease.
The Soft Skills Way™ blends coaching and community, using soft skills as anchor points to deepen awareness, boost confidence, and own time, creating more clarity and ease, and a purposeful life that’s more than the triangle of work, home, and the thoughts that keep pushing the “I’d like to dos” to a later that’s really just a someday waiting on you.
Why This Membership Matters
You care. You show up and step up, handle what’s in front of you, and keep things moving for work, home, and everyone else. But somewhere between the responsibilities, anticipating, and the downtime you spend scrolling instead of owning, your “like-tos” slip to the edges of your world.
Days turn into months, months into years, and even though you keep getting things done, it feels like you’re living inside the triangle of work, home, and to-dos. You think about what you’d like to start, finish, resolve, change, experience, but self-doubt, overthinking, overextension, or just plain inaction keep you from taking the step.
The Soft Skills Way™ helps you make that shift by refining and leveraging your soft skills, owning your time, and learning to live and lead with clarity and ease.


Why Soft Skills?
Soft skills are not the nice-to-haves.
They’re the power tools behind every choice you make.
They influence how you speak up, set boundaries, handle conflict, and follow through.
You already have them.
The ease, clarity & confidence happens when you use them on purpose.
Inside The Soft Skills Way™, we refine and leverage skills like:
- Self-awareness
- Boundary setting
- Active listening
- Creative thinking
- Conflict navigation
- Decision-making and follow-through
- Perspective-taking
What You’ll Get
Through The Soft Skills Way™, you’ll tap into SWAY—
a state of dynamic being shaped by awareness, choice, and intentional motion.
Own
Your Time
Make intentional choices that align with your values and energy.
Refine & Leverage
Your Soft Skills
You already have them, and you don’t need another system to start using them with purpose.
Overthinking
to Action
Make the shift:
Action creates confidence and momentum
Lead & Live
with Clarity & Ease
Because time isn’t slowing down & things don’t seem to be getting simpler.
Connect with Women Who Get It
Women who are finding their SWAY and learning to live and lead with it.

Why I Created the Soft Skills Way™
Michelle Ornat, CPC, ELI-MP
I was so done holding myself back and waiting. Honestly, I didn’t even know what I was waiting for. I was overthinking, second-guessing, and busying myself with things that seemed like I should do but were really just distractions, because it was easier. Until it wasn’t. I started waking up wondering where my spark had gone.
There was never going to be enough time or the perfect conditions, so I had to figure out how to use what I already had. That’s when I started refining and leveraging my soft skills. That realization came after a coaching session, and it changed everything.
Want to know more about how I became a coach and why this work means so much to me? You can read more here.
How The Soft Skills Way™ Membership Works
The Soft Skills Way™ isn’t a course or a class.
It’s a rhythm—live coaching, reflection, and small, intentional shifts that add up to big change over time.
- Choose your SWAY group – $97/month
- Select the East Coast group (6:30PM ET) or West Coast group (6:30PM PT)—whichever fits your schedule and energy best!
- Meet live twice a month.
- Join 90-minute sessions on the 1st and 3rd Tuesdays. Each gathering blends coaching, conversation, laughter, and strategy for refining and leveraging your soft skills.
- Follow your Sway Map.
- You’ll personalize your own SWAY Map and connect through shared goals and milestones inside the framework. Together, we’ll track progress, celebrate insights, and move from where you are to where you want to be—in alignment with your values and priorities.
- Stay connected between sessions.
- Share wins, ask questions, and get encouragement from women who get it. This is where accountability feels like support, not pressure.
- Receive a quarterly bonus. Each quarter, one member is selected for a private 60-minute coaching session with me.
What the Soft Skills Way™ Makes Possible
You’re here because you know why soft skills matter. We need them now more than ever.
The Soft Skills Way™ was created for women who are ready to stop living by reaction and start leading with intention. It’s more than a membership — it’s a practice that helps you shift from doing to being, from striving to choosing, from getting through the day to shaping the life you want.
Through coaching, skills mapping, and community, you’ll refine and leverage the soft skills that strengthen your confidence, clarify your values, and free up your energy for what matters most.
You’ll begin to recognize yourself as the kind of woman who leads her life on purpose — making aligned choices, using her voice with clarity, and finding ease where there used to be overthinking.
Because the Soft Skills Way™ isn’t about doing more. It’s about living with clarity, confidence, and ease, so the choices you make serve your vision for your work, your relationships, and your life.
Sway (n.)
A state of dynamic being shaped by awareness, choice, and intentional motion.
To have Sway is to live and lead with agency — balancing clarity with adaptability, moving with intention, and creating impact in relationship with others.
It’s agency in motion!

